
Psychiatrist Explains Why Some People Feel Numb After Major Wins—and How to Regain Joy
Achieving a major goal, such as graduating or earning a promotion, often brings celebration and pride. Yet for some, those moments can feel unexpectedly hollow — a phenomenon linked to a symptom known as anhedonia.
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“One of the most common reasons that people feel numb to wins is something called anhedonia,” said Dr. Judith Joseph, board-certified psychiatrist and author of "High Functioning," a book focused on high-functioning depression. She describes anhedonia as a lack of feeling and pleasure in the activities people used to enjoy.

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Often associated with mood disorders like depression, anhedonia can leave individuals emotionally disconnected from experiences that once brought joy, such as music, nature, or personal accomplishments.
Joseph explains that many high-achieving individuals fall into the mental trap of conditional happiness: "I’ll be happy when…" Whether tied to landing a job, entering a relationship, or completing school, this mindset places undue emphasis on future outcomes and diminishes the ability to experience contentment in the present.
“We know from the research that the mentality of 'I will be happy when…' is a setup for complete unhappiness. It’s counterintuitive,” Joseph said.

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To overcome anhedonia, Joseph recommends cultivating small daily moments of joy, noting that joy is an experience, while happiness is an idea. She encourages people to assess their daily routines with questions such as:
- Did I savor my food?
- Did I feel refreshed after resting?
- Did a movie or poem inspire me?
Small behavioral changes, such as eating lunch without distractions or making eye contact in conversations, can reignite emotional engagement.
“It’s the experience of these human sensations that make up joy,” Joseph said. “And when you add them up, that’s what happiness really is.”
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